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National Matchmaker Day is on August 31st. It’s a day dedicated to honoring those in the business of love who are trusted with the most precious gift: someone’s heart.For me, being a connector of hearts and matchmaker isn’t just a profession— it’s a passion. I can truly say I love this work because helping people find and nurture love brings me endless joy. After all, LOVE has always been my favorite four-letter word.As America’s Top Online Dating Expert and the Digital Matchmaker®, I’ve been coaching singles for more than 30 years. Along the way, I’ve witnessed every twist and turn…
Today’s article looks at sexless marriage advice for men from a man who has been there, namely myself.Some of what you’ll read will be familiar. Some of it will be news to you. Some of it might challenge you.But whatever you experience, know that as a man and a husband of nearly sixteen years, I’ve been where some of you are right now, for reasons I’ll share.I’m not making light of anything, nor pretending a sexless marriage is easy, because it’s not. It’s downright frustrating.You get angry, you feel powerless, and sometimes you even start feeling sorry for yourself.But if…
September is here—a month of fresh beginnings, cooler evenings, and the transition from summer flings to seeking a meaningful connection. There always seems to be an internal switch that gets activated right after Labor Day to engage singles to attract love in SeptemberAs the first days of fall approach, it’s the perfect time to focus on attracting love, refining your dating process, and preparing for the active Cuffing Season.New seasons welcome new chances to find love.Whether you’re reentering the dating world after a long marriage or long-term relationship, updating your dating profile and putting your best digital foot forward is…
Dating a Ukrainian woman sometimes feels puzzling for foreigners, but the challenge is almost always the logistics and not the feelings in place. Online dating in Ukraine works best with simplicity and directness. People do not wait around for vague plans and open-ended texting. So, instead of guessing, let’s take a closer look at how dating in Ukraine actually works and which early mistakes lead to silence. First Communication with Single Ukrainian Women If you’re in the initial stage of dating Ukrainian women and wondering why texting feels off, it’s just that their communication approach is different. In the workweek,…
When someone you love dies, the world does not pause to let you grieve. Within hours, there are calls to make and decisions to face, often while you are in shock and running on no sleep. It can feel like being handed a to-do list in a language you do not speak. So what actually needs to happen, and in what order? Having a clear, calm sequence to follow can lift some of the weight at the hardest possible time. This guide walks through the practical steps, gently, so you can take them one at a time rather than all…
Sometimes the best way to welcome a new season is with the right soundtrack. For me, September always brings to mind “Begin Again” by Taylor Swift—a reminder that every ending creates space for a new beginning. Taylor and Travis’s romantic journey also gives hope to singles searching for love.When I think of September, I think about fresh starts. Summer vacations wind down, the pace of life shifts, and with cooler evenings comes a natural desire to slow down and refocus on the next season. For many singles, it’s the month when casual summer romances give way to something more lasting.…
There is a particular kind of anxiety that doesn’t always feel like anxiety.It feels like planning.It feels like responsibility.It feels like thinking ahead, solving problems, creating systems, having difficult conversations, preparing for what might happen, analysing what went wrong, and working out what needs to happen next.It can even look like conscientiousness, discipline, or good parenting.And sometimes it is.But sometimes, underneath all that activity, there is something else going on.It’s the need that:I need to know that this, all of this life, is going to be okay.And that is a completely different mental game you’re playing in your head.More than…
I’ve been busy as a digital bee, and for good reason—singles everywhere are gearing up for Cuffing Season. If you’re new to the term, this dating stretch runs from late August through Valentine’s Day, with fall as the sweet spot. Cooler weather, earlier nights, and holiday plans all spark the urge to couple up—whether for cozy companionship or the hope of lasting love.Just like football, Cuffing Season has its own playbook. The cuffing season timeline unfolds in six stages: Pre-Season, Scouting, Drafting, Regular Season, Playoffs, and the Super Bowl of Love on Valentine’s Day. Each stage has its own energy,…
God’s creation is beautiful, breathtaking and inspiring, and getting out to enjoy it is good for the soul. Making the natural world part of your dating life can be beneficial too. Date ideas in nature can open up a world of possibilities. There’s so much to see in the world, wherever you are, and sharing it with someone can make a date special and memorable. Some of the times I feel closest to God are when I am awestruck by the beauty of a view that He has created. Finding the things that you appreciate in that way and turning them…
As kids, we are asked what we want to be when we grow up. At that age, our answers are often simple: doctor, fireman, scientist. Once we get to college or start working, our outlook on the future becomes more complicated. Our goals are less oriented towards purpose but rather towards success. However, to live happily, our views of success should align with a sense of purpose. There are many different kinds of purposes of life to pursue, but it’s essential to find something that brings joy and fulfillment to your life. To visualize and actualize your future goals, consider…