National Singles Day 2025 is here — a moment to celebrate confidence, independence, and love in all its forms. Nearly half of U.S. adults are single, and their voices, values, and lifestyles are shaping the future of dating and relationships.
Editor’s Note — Updated for 2025
When I first shared these 15 facts about singles over a decade ago, the numbers were eye-opening: more than half of American adults were identifying as single for the first time. That moment felt groundbreaking.
Fast forward to 2025, and singles continue to redefine what love and connection look like. Did you know that 46.4% of U.S. adults are single, according to the U.S. Census Bureau? That’s 117.6 million unmarried Americans — nearly every other adult aged 18 and over. This includes those who are divorced, widowed, or have never married.
And with National Singles Day 2025 upon us, it’s the perfect moment to highlight what really matters most in modern love.
Yes, apps and technology have changed the game. But one thing hasn’t changed: singles still care about the same timeless qualities when it comes to love. These facts are proof that the essentials — respect, trust, and connection — never go out of style.
Fact 1 – Respect Is Non-Negotiable in Relationships
Respect is the foundation of love. Singles say it shows up everywhere — from the way you date to the way you dream about the future. Without respect, nothing else works.
Fact 2 – Trust Is the #1 Priority for Singles
For singles, trust is everything. In fact, 100% of women and 97% of men report wanting someone they can count on and confide in.
Fact 3 – Communication Skills Matter Most in Love
Talking openly isn’t optional — it’s essential. Almost every single person agrees that being able to share wants and needs makes relationships stronger.
Fact 4 – Laughter and Humor Build Stronger Bonds
Shared laughter can make all the difference. Ninety-eight percent of women and 91% of men say humor is one of the most attractive and necessary traits in a partner.
Fact 5 – Singles Stay Active and Prioritize Wellness
Staying healthy is a top priority. Sixty-five percent of singles exercise at least once a week, keeping wellness front and center for both self-care and attraction.
Fact 6 – Pets Play a Big Role in Single Lifestyles
A dog at the park or a cat at home — pets add joy to everyday life. Sixty-four percent of singles have one, and many say their furry companions even help spark new connections.
Fact 7 – Online Dating Is the Top Way Couples Meet
As an online dating expert coaching singles for over three decades, I can let you know that times have changed. Stanford research shows that more than half of couples (53%) now meet online, while only 15% meet through friends, and this gap continues to widen.
Fact 8 – Education and Learning Are Highly Valued
Growth and learning matter. Sixty percent of singles have earned an associate’s degree or higher, showing how important education and curiosity are in attraction.
Fact 9 – Sex and Intimacy Are Top of Mind
Desire hasn’t gone anywhere. More than half of singles — 52% — admit to thinking about sex at least once a day, keeping passion front and center in dating.
Fact 10 – Marriage and Long-Term Love Still Appeal
The dream of forever is still alive. Eighty-nine percent of singles believe they can stay married to one person for life, indicating that long-term love remains the ultimate goal.
Fact 11 – Words of Affection Strengthen Relationships
Saying how you feel matters. Ninety-five percent of singles say that sharing words of love and affection helps them feel closer and more connected.
Fact 12 – Men Welcome Successful, Independent Women
Confidence is attractive. Ninety percent of men say they’d date a woman who earns more, and 87% are open to being with someone more intellectual.
Fact 13 – Singles Embrace Inclusive, Diverse Love
Love crosses boundaries. Seventy-four percent of singles would date someone of a different ethnicity, and 70% would date across religions.
Fact 14 – Travel Creates Deeper Romantic Connections
Traveling together isn’t just fun — it’s intimate. Ninety-four percent of singles say sharing a trip brings them closer than public displays of affection ever could.
Fact 15 – Commitment and Partnership Remain the Ultimate Goal
At the heart of it all, singles still want to share their lives with others. Eighty-six percent say the main reason they want to marry is to build a committed partnership with someone they love.
Why These Insights Still Matter in 2025
Technology continues to evolve — from swipes and video chats to apps that match people based on shared values. But even with all the new tools, singles still want the same timeless things: respect, trust, laughter, and a partner who’s truly present.
These facts remind us that while trends shift, the heart of dating remains the same. Confidence, communication, and connection never go out of style.
Conclusion — Let’s Create Your Next Love Story Together
Some singles swipe, others focus on friendships, and many dive into travel or new passions. No matter the path, it starts with self-worth. And when you’re ready, I’d be happy to help you take that confidence and turn it into lasting love.
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Julie Spira is the Digital Matchmaker® and America’s Top Online Dating Expert. She’s an award-winning certified dating coach who’s been helping singles find their perfect match for over three decades. Follow @JulieSpira on IG and @digitalmatchmaker on TikTok.
